Wednesday, July 8, 2009

阿丹和婆婆;Adan and my mother-in-law

小芥:阿丹雖然比樂高早進來我的夫家兩週,可是,樂高早就跟新的阿公阿嬤很熟了。阿丹是屬於慢熟的貓,很慢很慢,就像太上老君的丹爐煉「丹」。要很有耐性,才會變成真正感情好。
Michico : Although Adan was earlier coming to the new home than Lego 2 weeks, but Lego has already very good with my father & mother-in-law. Adan hasn't. Adan is the type of "slow slow slow" you have to be very patient, like my father with him, if you can take enough long time, you could be good with him.
我婆婆非常努力的想要接近阿丹,在跟樂高玩了一下後,總是會回頭看看阿丹在哪,跟他親近一下。阿丹不是每一次都會出現在容易接近的地點,他通常喜歡躲避到高處。今天他的心情不錯,想要跟阿嬤有點交流。
My mother-in-law is really trying, everytime she plays with Lego for a while, she will always turn her head back finding Adan, tries to be close to him a bit. Adan doesn't show up everytime, he often hides at the top of the closet today, I guess Adan has good mood, he wants to have some connection with grandma.
我其實非常佩服而且感動我婆婆的耐性,可能跟她當過20年幼稚園老師有關係,她就站在阿丹旁邊也不打擾他,輕輕和阿丹說話,阿丹有時候看窗外、有時候看牆壁,有時候會凝望著她。我婆婆會提細聲音,慢慢小聲跟阿丹說:「阿丹,我是你阿嬤耶。」噢讓我心頭好暖喔。
I actually very admire my mother-in-law's patient, perphaps she was a kindergarten teacher for 20 years. She just stand there and not bothering Adan, gently talk to Adan. Sometimes Adan sees outside, sometimes sees the wall, sometimes watches into her eyes. My mother-in-law whisper to Adan " Adan, I am your grandma~" Oah that makes me really touched~
時間也許不會這麼快,我爸花了11年多,才讓阿丹喜歡他。才讓阿丹願意隨便老爹搓揉他的肚肚,蹭蹭。究竟阿丹會用多少時間真正蹭蹭黏上我公婆,我沒辦法保證,但是阿丹已經跟我婆婆很熟了,有時候還會哈哈氣、拍拍掌,表達很多種意思。我知道阿丹可以體會,我婆婆是充滿著善意。阿丹是非常聰明、有智慧的。
My dad uses over 11 years, finally makes Adan likes him, let my father rub his tummy, actually Adan will use how much time like my father & mother-in-law, I can't guarantee, but Adan is really familiar with my mother-in-law, he sometimes little hiss or use his paw do gently wrap in the air, and meiow meiow to her, he wants to say many things. I knew Adan really understanding that my mother-in-law is very very friendly to him.
小芥:「丹,你也好棒,你也在努力跟阿嬤交朋友喔。姨姨知道你比較容易適應新環境,比較不容易適應新朋友,可是姨姨知道你很努力,有一直在看著、體會著每個新家族成員喔。」
Michico : " Adan-dan, you are so great, too. I know you are working really hard to making new friends with grandma! I know you can get with new environment easily but making friends slowly, but I know you are trying make friends with every new family members! "
阿丹本週六就要屆滿12歲,進入13歲的第一天了。我很驕傲,12歲的阿丹還在努力開拓新的友誼圈喔,換算成人類,已經是八十多歲的阿公囉。
Adan will be 12 years old this Saturday, I am so proud of him are still making new friends at his age. I am very very proud!

19 comments:

玉山 said...

丹爺好棒呢
希望丹丹跟公婆感情能快快就變好
然後,感情很好的相處未來的11年,然後再一個無限個11年
加油

William said...

Sometimes it just takes a lot of time. Adan will come around!

elf said...

阿丹好棒好棒..不管過多久阿丹還是一樣是最帥的...

慢慢仙 said...

乖丹是貓
慢慢來
不急不徐是正常的 :P


乖丹丹~~
家裡一下子突然有好多新成員厚
大家都很愛你呀
想和你做好朋友
(像我也是很想跟你做好朋友)
不過我們不急啦
一切依你厚
因為....



哩細老郎啦


啊哈哈哈

andophiroxia said...

Tender moment. Arion's mother really is nice.

Jan's Funny Farm said...

Adan's new grandma sounds like a very wise and kind woman. They will be friends.

Abby Normal and Stygia said...

What a wonderful boy Adan is! And lucky to have such a patient mother in law.

Purrs,
Abby & Stygia

Cheysuli and gemini said...

Adan! I think this calls for a major birthday bash!!!

Puss-in-Boots said...

Hi Adan and Lego, thank you for coming and visiting us. We hope you come more often...but we have to get our mum to put a post more often, too. She's pretty bad at posting lately.

We like that you are making friends with grandma, Adan. We think she's a very nice lady.

Purrs. Bella and Mitzi

Gattina said...

Adan certainly needs some time, there had been so many changements in his life lately and he will be 64 ! I am 66 today, lol !

白博士 said...

沒想到阿丹已經如此"高壽"了耶~
先預祝阿丹生日快樂 :)

Anonymous said...

哈囉!有空來我家裡逛逛,記得留言唷!.....................................................................
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Junior and Orion said...

Adan, we know you will warm up to Grandma. Just don't take too long, cause it looks like you are missing some great play time and some wonderful snuggles.

Daisy said...

Adan, it looks like you have a real nice grandma who knows just how to treat a cat!

小咪馬麻 said...

阿丹要繼續這麼健康長壽下去喔...

The Furry Kids said...

Adan, your grandma seems really nice! I hope you warm up to her soon.

Love,
Tazo

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

打擾了,你的部落格很不錯,我好喜歡來這裡看看,灌一下水幫妳加油...............................................................................

Anonymous said...

很特別也很喜歡你的部落格,灌一下水請別見怪................................................................................

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