Michico : Although Adan was earlier coming to the new home than Lego 2 weeks, but Lego has already very good with my father & mother-in-law. Adan hasn't. Adan is the type of "slow slow slow" you have to be very patient, like my father with him, if you can take enough long time, you could be good with him.
My mother-in-law is really trying, everytime she plays with Lego for a while, she will always turn her head back finding Adan, tries to be close to him a bit. Adan doesn't show up everytime, he often hides at the top of the closet
I actually very admire my mother-in-law's patient, perphaps she was a kindergarten teacher for 20 years. She just stand there and not bothering Adan, gently talk to Adan. Sometimes Adan sees outside, sometimes sees the wall, sometimes watches into her eyes. My mother-in-law whisper to Adan " Adan, I am your grandma~" Oah that makes me really touched~
My dad uses over 11 years, finally makes Adan likes him, let my father rub his tummy, actually Adan will use how much time like my father & mother-in-law, I can't guarantee, but Adan is really familiar with my mother-in-law, he sometimes little hiss or use his paw do gently wrap in the air, and meiow meiow to her, he wants to say many things. I knew Adan really understanding that my mother-in-law is very very friendly to him.
Michico : " Adan-dan, you are so great, too. I know you are working really hard to making new friends with grandma! I know you can get with new environment easily but making friends slowly, but I know you are trying make friends with every new family members! "
Adan will be 12 years old this Saturday, I am so proud of him are still making new friends at his age. I am very very proud!